Avatar issue

Something happened to my Avatar for profiles when a single guy or woman join it shows a guy or a woman but when a couple join it dose not show a couple it has a pic of a single guy where can I change this?

I can tell you but you can also learn how to find these things using "inspect element" in your browser.

Make sure your cache is all off when you troubleshoot image locations.

When the cache is off, right click on the images in question and click "inspect element," of course you need to be using compatible browser.

So the is no where in Dolphin that you set the default thumb?

The more and more I work with dolphin the more I wish I went with one of the companies

 It is the template, either yours or the default.

From what you say you must have a custom template.

/templates/base/images/icons/

 Yes, the learning curve is very steep.

I don't think it is the template I restore a older profile backup and it works then if I restore to the current one it don't same template only data base I am playing with is profile.sql

If I could figure out how to completely copy a profile i would restore to the old profile backup and copy the profiles in.

I look at both files with phpAdmin and do not see the difference 

If you had went with any other platform, you will find customisation just the same.

The profile for couples are done a bit differently; in the database you will find a second profile.  Couple profiles in Dolphin is not complete; and it has not been a priority for anyone to try to change couple profiles.

Icons are not set in the admin; and that is what you are actually wanting to change; members can change their avatars; if the avatar module is in use, or their profile photo when it is not used.

If you are wanting to change the default icon when a person has not chosen an avatar or has not uploaded a profile photo, then that has been instructed.

From looking at your site template; I would suspect the css for that template.