ok - although it is not logically - it works - I saw somewhere about clicking the save in the Admin settings. Under administration - Modules - Flash Apps: Clcik the settings next to FlashApps admin, and just hit save. Then click the + next to A/V chat, then settings and then click Save here also. No need to change any settings, just simply click the save button.
Any rooms that were created will now show up - keep in mind: anyone cirrrently in the chat rooms will have to refresh to see the new rooms. But the rooms will stay even after closing the chat and reentering.