Edit friends request email template - missing

Hi - Im wondering if this is something that changed with one of the mods Ive installed. I cant find the 'new friends request' email in the email templates in Admin.

I thought it was there before, and I have customised it sometime in the past.

Since I cant find it in the templates is there a way to edit it in phpMyAdmin ?

Please be detailed if explaining how to access it as I am a complete beginner in phpMyAdmin

(This is the email that a member receives when they have a new friend request.)

Thanks

Dan V

not in default of 1.4

glparams holds them

install/sql/v61.sql will have it if exists

check mods in sql files ...will have it if exists

the emails plates are there forever once in as there is no way to delete from admin

have fun glparams is huge...if it not in admin its not in DB I will show you how to navigate it anyway

login to cpanel

goto phpmyadmin if none choose datbases then scroll to very bottom and choose phpmyadmin

then choose database page will refresh and a list of "tables" will appear down the left hand column basically a frameon the left with its own scroll bar

click glparams/then at the at the top click search (beside browse, sructure, sql)

in the catag insert 4 and click go(hit enter)

they will all appear  look in col desc