Embedded Video Starts Automatically

After uploading a video, and the video is selected from the Video Gallery page, dolphin presents code to Embed the video on a web page.

When I embed the following code provided after a video is successfully uploaded, the page it appears on (a different domain website), starts playing immediately when the page is opened.  This is apparently intentional as it appears to be the default.

I want to have more than one video on a page.  What can I add to this embedded code to load the page, but NOT start the video until the start icon is clicked?

<div><object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://fpdownload.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=9,0,28,0" width="100%" height="435" id="ray_player_object" align="middle"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always" /><param name="movie" value="http://www.bizwiz.com/networking/ray/modules/global/app/holder_free.swf" /><param name="quality" value="high" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="base" value="http://www.bizwiz.com/networking/ray/modules/movie/" /><param name="FlashVars" value="module=movie&amp;app=player&amp;id=&amp;file=8&amp;url=http://www.bizwiz.com/networking/ray/XML.php" /><embed id="ray_player_embed"    name="ray_player"    src="http://www.bizwiz.com/networking/ray/modules/global/app/holder_free.swf" quality="high" allowFullScreen="true" width="100%" height="435" align="middle" allowScriptAccess="always" base="http://www.bizwiz.com/networking/ray/modules/movie/" FlashVars="module=movie&amp;app=player&amp;id=&amp;file=8&amp;url=http://www.bizwiz.com/networking/ray/XML.php" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" /></object></div>

Arthur

after

allowFullScreen="true"

insert

Autoplay="false"

into your code...save n see

Thank you mrpowless.  I tried that by adding the suggested code to each of the two embedded strings.  It didn't work.  Both play when I load the page.  To test further, I tried it with just one of the strings, and deleted the second video. That test didn't work either.  Sure seems like it should have.  Another suggestion??