Facebook "home"

Hi i find alot of walls and spymode updates on the marked, but i quess im looking for something in between, like facebook home.

I dont like the spy modul because everyone can see who and how many times im looking at someones profile, and i dont want that :)

So is it a modul or modification of any modul that works like facebook home that i can show on my home page with updates, movies and pictures from my friends and not everyone in the community?

Regards

Morten

Is it possible to remove the "whos looking at whos profile" on spymode?

And are someone upgrading this mode so that it contains pictures and avatars?

Does anyone have a wall or spymode working on their homepage

(NOT talking about a wall that everyone can post comment on, i got the shoutbox for that :) )