Notifications - Spy?

What file or database controls the Notifications that get sent to the Blue "I" ?  I have purchased the Spywall Modification on the Market from idelloweb and wanted to remove certain entries such as "[Profile] has took a friendship with [profile] or such and such has commented on your profile but I have no way to remove these.  The owner of the mod says that Boonex Modules control this and not his spywall mod, so if I want to remove them I need to edit Boonex's mods.  Anyone?

Hi,

that blue "i" is from the current Boonex Spy Mod, yes, so if you want that out or something changed in th Spy mod, it has to be changed in the Boonex mod...

I found bxspymodule.php this file let me get rid of (PROFILE Rated PROFILE) (PROFILE COMMENTED ON PROFILE) (PROFILE SENT FRIEND REQUEST TO PROFILE) but I can't figure out how to get rid of (PROFILE POSTED PERSONAL MESSAGE) - The later may be specific to this Spywall Mod and not Boonex not sure though?