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How do you put these in alphabetical order?  I did it in the menu builder but it did nothing there has to be a way to do this? Date order?  something?

Those go by the order you have them in the menu builder. Or at least they are suppose to. They do on my site,

Perhaps you have a caching problem.

admin panel->builders->navigation menu

My thoughts we alway's looking for this to be North and South and never even looked East and West which now it is what I wanted...