chat running slow...

my chat is running super slow after like 5 mins, it starts to lag really bad, i am running on rms for chat so i can figure out why it lags soooo bad

Is this your own RMS?  Where is your RMS hosted?  Is the RMS hosted on the same server as your Dolphin?    Are you using the correct RMS for the version of Dolphin you are using?  Does it load slow or just starts to get sluggish after 5 minutes?  Please provide more info :D

I have the same problem.  If we stay in the chat room more than 30 mins or an hour, it lags so we have to refresh the page to get it back to normal.  I'm not sure why.  I have my own RMS installed on my dedicated server.  I don't think it's the server, i think it's the chat room.  Hmm