This may sound like a stupid question, but are you running Dolphin Ad-Free? If you are, then you need to install (or connect to) an RMS (besides) Boonex to make this happen. Keep in mind that Ad-Free requires you to use an IP address for the location of the RMS in order for it to connect and it can not be the same IP your site is located on.
Good luck with this.
Rms and ffmpeg are completely seperate entites mydatery.
ffmpeg is used to convert a video file to flv (music too but thats not the issue here)....which is done on the server.. nothing to do with rms.
So basically if you have bought some space which dosent allow the use
of ffmpeg.exe you wont be able to upload any video files for conversion.
It also dosent matter if its adfree or not, the rms connection provided works upto a point and that point is no video chat.
You have the option of purchasing a rms/red5 connection from suitable hosts that will allow full operation of all boonex ray suite and widgets, for a small monthly cost.
Many hosts (shared accounts) dont allow the ffmpeg for the simple reason of server load....when you buy that cheap bargin space they're expecting you to be making a straight forward website not start building the next youtube.
However there are hosts which allow the ffmpeg on shared hosting....but they will restrict you in another way when your site gets busy...but... this way is cheap and good for starting out from call it incubation for your site b4 you move it to vps or dedicated.
For shared low cost hosting that allows ffmpeg to run i recommend hostmonster
For VPS or dedicated i recommend HostV
For rms/red5 connections cyberxing